Just back to blogging after a long time...work and that most coveted one-time work of our lives..Marriage....my nikah was on 11th may 2008 and sorry for being stereotypic...its has been the best day of my life
Well unique as our customs are, though being a realist, i thoroughly enjoyed it....
sorry for being artistic again, i had to say seeing the bride for the first time only after nikah is an unforgettable experience...
i must say there are somethings which we can never fully coprehend and nikah should be on top of that list....two perfect strangers...one nikah ceremony....then the transformation to being the ultimate companions aka soulmates....
my life now closely resembles that fanta softdrink Ad....where a guy is blasted by an orange ball....dishkiyaon....
one thing that stuck me after all this is there is a better, clean, halal way to do everything that we desire however worldly it might seem....and that as a consequence works out to be the best choice....
without being philosophical, lemme add that marriage is not just the satisfaction of our inclinations but the culmination of all things important for us in our lives.....
ok now for the marriage resolution....
" Before marriage, there are lots of relationships we are involved in like the relation with your parents, extended family friends etc., and after marriage, there is again a superlative bonus of new relatives like your in-laws and associated assortment of relatives....my understanding is that both have their own places and their rights and the resolution is to maintain and sustain their rights without infringing on each others rights and egos"
It does sound challenging but thats the way to go about it
Well unique as our customs are, though being a realist, i thoroughly enjoyed it....
sorry for being artistic again, i had to say seeing the bride for the first time only after nikah is an unforgettable experience...
i must say there are somethings which we can never fully coprehend and nikah should be on top of that list....two perfect strangers...one nikah ceremony....then the transformation to being the ultimate companions aka soulmates....
my life now closely resembles that fanta softdrink Ad....where a guy is blasted by an orange ball....dishkiyaon....
one thing that stuck me after all this is there is a better, clean, halal way to do everything that we desire however worldly it might seem....and that as a consequence works out to be the best choice....
without being philosophical, lemme add that marriage is not just the satisfaction of our inclinations but the culmination of all things important for us in our lives.....
ok now for the marriage resolution....
" Before marriage, there are lots of relationships we are involved in like the relation with your parents, extended family friends etc., and after marriage, there is again a superlative bonus of new relatives like your in-laws and associated assortment of relatives....my understanding is that both have their own places and their rights and the resolution is to maintain and sustain their rights without infringing on each others rights and egos"
It does sound challenging but thats the way to go about it
